10 Things You Should Never Write to a Girl

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Communication is what can hold any couple together for long years. Just like many other processes, it should be done under certain rules. Whether you already date some girl or just want to start it with a new one, there are topics to avoid in your online conversation. So we picked 10 things you should forget about while texting a girl.

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Hi/Hello/Hi beautiful! Guys who you this as a conversation starter on online dating sites do not usually succeed. This is just too banal and doesn’t promote the dialogue. What is she supposed to reply? You should kick it off in a more creative way, to be honest. Try to appeal to some details you’ve found on her dating profile or mention your mutual friends.

Do you have a boyfriend? This is actually not your business. Again, this is not what she will answer to – first, you intrude her personal life; second, she would like to get your attention regardless of what her relationship status is (or why would she keep her social media accounts up to date?).

Gimme your phone number! Okay, I once received a message like this. And this was so stupid and awkward that I keep telling this story to all my friends. Believe me that this is a weak pickup line, not to mention it is pretty hackneyed. Modern dating gets democratic yet it doesn’t mean you are entitled to request one’s contact info right off the bat.

How about going out in 30 minutes? Remember that practically no girl can get ready I such a short time. I also want you to know that asking a lady out via texting is inappropriate unless you know each other well enough. Leave such invitations for your long-term girlfriend but maintain the etiquette while wooing a new one. Make a phone call if you are sure she will agree.

Whataya wearing? Some guides to the art of sexting advise doing so and even provide concrete recommendations. Oh, don’t you think it’s too much for the beginning? She might be naked while talking to you but she is not ought to reveal this. By using such a pickup technique, you only show how unserious your intentions are.

Send a pic of your… I guess you know what – her private body parts. This is even worse than asking what she is having on today. You gonna save these naughty photos on your PC and then show them to your bros – all smart women know this! So if you are about to date a decent girl, do not send her messages of this kind.

Wanna hook up with me? Do you really hope she will say “yes”? If she does so, I have bad news for you. This is definitely not a girl you should build a long-term relationship with. Otherwise, she is going to regularly cheat on you. If you don’t mind having an open relationship, you can initiate a more private meeting right now, of course.

You should actually drop some weight. Any normal girl should hate you for saying this. Any. Yes, contemporary men are spoiled with ideal female bodies. Yet you will barely find an ideal girl in real life. We all have some flaws – in our characters and in our appearance. This is cool, to be honest, because one’s disadvantages make this person more attractive.

Are u having your period? Regardless of how expressively she talks to you, this is her very intimate secret you shouldn’t know about. At least, she doesn’t want you to. Anyway, you should be able to sustain the harmony of your relationship regardless of events happening to you two.

I don’t really care about (whatever she is staying). I wish you to consider that this is the worst thing to ever say to a girl. Once she hears it, her interest to you automatically dies. This means you are not really into her as a person and as a woman.

Thanks to our friends from https://romancecompass.com for providing this article.

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Top Reasons To Use A Chat Line

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Are you currently on the dating market? If so, you’ll quickly realize that there is an abundance of ways to find a date. You can easily go online and find love on a dating website, but that isn’t always effective. Or, you could remain old fashioned and find someone in person. Wouldn’t it be nice to be able to find a partner in a much easier manner? Wouldn’t you like to feel safer when meeting someone for the first time? Here are a few reasons to try a chat line from the experts at Chatline Connect.

Amazing Conversation

The main reason for using a chat line is the fact that it’ll give you the ability to have amazing conversations with others. Whether you wish to chat with someone nearby or faraway, you can guarantee that you’ll find someone interesting and passionate. That individual will keep you talking and talking for hours on end. You’ll experience far greater intimacy than what you would from a simple online chat. Over the phone, you can ask questions rapidly and get the answers even quicker. This ensures a better conversation, while simultaneously allowing you to learn more about the individual in question.

One of the top reasons to use a chat line: you may meet your person you've been searching for

Anonymous And Safe

Another thing to remember is that chatting on a phone line is totally safe. With this type of arrangement, you will be able to remain in control of your safety and anonymity. You will not have to disclose your name and personal information until you’re absolutely ready to do so. And more importantly, the chat line will allow you to feel out the candidate on the other side of the phone. When you finally feel comfortable with this individual, you can open up your heart and agree to meet in person.

No Photograph Needed

The Internet has made people far more superficial. When attempting to date online, the first picture you post will make it or break it. And, a lot of men and women do not like the idea of showing their picture to millions of people around the world. By using a chat line, you will be able to completely avoid this dilemma. Instead of creating a picture profile, you will be able to create an audio profile. This will give you the ability to tell others about yourself and your interests. By using this type of platform, you can guarantee that the dater will actually like you for you!

Fun For Everyone

At the end of the day, chat lines can be tons of fun for everyone involved. Whether you’re a man or woman, you can rest assured knowing you’ll easily be able to find someone fun and interesting to chat with. In fact, this type of platform can be enormously advantageous for everyone! You do not have to be a dater in order to take full advantage of a chat line. Just log on whenever you feel like it and spend hours and hours chatting with someone totally unique and interesting.

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Get Engaged with the Right Ring Choice

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Is an engagement to that special person in your life in your offing?

If so, finding the perfect engagement ring doesn’t have to leave you anxious and losing sleep night after night.

While many men may fret over whether or not that special woman in their life will like the ring, let alone say yes to a proposal, the worry (at least about liking the ring) can be removed by some smart shopping sense.

With that in mind, will you get engaged with the right ring choice?

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Do Your Homework Before Buying

So that you can locate the right ring the first time around, keep these pointers in mind:

  1. Know your budget – First and foremost, what kind of financial budget are you working with? While some guys can and will spend thousands and thousands of dollars on that perfect ring, others are more constricted and what they can allocate towards an engagement ring. Look to see where you fall in the financial arena, along with finding out which ring makers/sellers offer the best rings at the best prices. Also look to see what kind of payment plans are available, especially those that do not compromise your financial well-being;
  2. Turn to the worldwide web – There are myriad of collections out there, so do your research to see which one best fits your wishes. You could opt for the morganite engagement rings collection or another such brand. Finding the best brands available is made rather easy these days thanks to the Internet. Unlike in the past when men oftentimes had to rely on word-of-mouth or publications to find out which rings were the best made and best priced, the worldwide web has changed the game. By doing a simple Google search on engagement rings, guys can get a wealth of information, thereby allowing them to narrow down their choices;
  3. Her tastes – While many women love the surprise of being asked to marry the man of their dreams, a sizable number of ladies also want a say in what kind of ring will adorn their finger. Yes, ring shopping can be a tad challenging at times for the happy couple, though most couples get through it just fine. Plan some time together to go and view rings, seeing what she fancies and what doesn’t appeal to her. That way, there won’t be any unhappy moments when you present the ring to her (hopefully a moment that brings a surprised and happy look to her face). As all guys should know, healthy and happy relationships make for the best relationships;
  4. Get social – Turning to social media for some tips on finding the right ring for your lady is not a bad idea. With social networking, you can discover how other guys are going about locating the right rings for their girlfriends. Going to sites such as Facebook, Twitter, Instagram etc. can provide you with some insight on pricing, the most popular rings in 2016, and some of the unique ways guys go about surprising their gals when the moment is right. You can also choose to visit some relationship forums (they’re not all that hard to track down on the web) in order to chat with other guys about rings and other engagement topics. In fact, getting other women’s feedback on what you might buy for your lady doesn’t hurt either. Engagement chats on the web can oftentimes turn to marriage discussions, so take-in as much information as possible to make things clearer in your head about having the best engagement surprise and the greatest relationship possible;
  5. Go with your heart – Finally, there are some guys (and couples for that matter) that are just too strapped for cash these days. As a result, you may have to delay finding that perfect engagement ring for the love of your life. If that is the case, be up front about why you’re delaying the ring purchase. As they say, honesty is always the best policy, especially when it comes to relationships. You should also talk to ring sellers and get their advice on finding the best ring at the most affordable price. While you may have wanted to spend thousands and thousands of dollars on that special piece of jewelry, something less expensive and a little simpler may just do the trick.
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Casual Encounters: A Good Choice?

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Seeking Casual Encounters can be the jumpstart for your sex life that you've been looking for ... photo by CC user stokpic on pixabay

When people hear the mention of casual encounters, nine times out of ten you can expect them to paint a pretty negative view on the subject. After all movies and television have illustrated the act as an often drunken affair, where the following morning is met with a mixture of regret and upset. Don’t believe everything you see in the media though as casual dating can be a healthy alternative lifestyle for all involved, thanks to the internet.

With the Internet quickly becoming the main way in which we keep in touch with friends and family, do our shopping, and keep up to date on the latest news around the globe, as well as pretty much most other things in our lives; it’s no surprise to see our romantic lives also being aided by the World Wide Web too.

I’m sure you’re wondering, “How can it be that casual encounters are a healthy alternative?” Sure meeting girls and guys in bars and clubs on sounds like the exact opposite experience on the surface – after all you’re heading back to the bedroom with a random stranger. However with the Internet helping, you can quickly transform this sort of experience into something much safer.

Thanks to dating websites casual encounter have never been easier. For example, you can meet women looking for sex on MySexHookups. Whenever you sign up, you’re given the chance to “sell yourself” by creating your very own personal profile. It’s through these profiles that we can sift through and locate others who share similar interests or at the very least want the same sort of casual experience and vice versa. Whereas in a club you have no real idea as to every person’s likes and dislikes or whether they are even looking for a casual encounter, online dating profiles allow you to filter and locate the best suited people for you.

Using the Internet to meet people also gives you one thing that approaching someone in a bar or club does not – time. You’re given the chance to actually chat a little at first and see if there’s any chemistry there at all. It removes the stress and worry of having to approach a stranger by allowing you to break down that barrier whether it’s via online chat or a phone call.

Furthermore, the extra time allows you to organise a decent evening for the pair of you as opposed to a quick and abrupt one that might leave you feeling dirty and used. Sure the sexual activity will happen at some point (that is why the pair of you are meeting after all) but who’s to say you can’t also throw in a meal or fun activity too? Whereas meeting someone in a club removes any potential to do this, meeting someone online gives you the opportunity to do so.

After dancing in a club for hours on end it’s safe to say you’re hardly feeling your best. With the added element of alcohol thrown into the mix, let’s just say it’s hardly an ideal setup. Meeting online and setting a time gives you the chance to scrub up and look the part, as you would with any sort of date.

Thanks to the Internet casual encounters no longer need to be limited to random hook-ups in seedy bars. Truth of the matter is it can be a healthy alternative in many ways.

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How to buy a gift for a boyfriend/girlfriend

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Gift For Boyfriend/Girlfiend

So it is that time of year. It is always that time of year. Whether it is birthdays, anniversaries, Valentine’s Day, or Christmas; you need to get your significant other a gift. So here are some tips on how to buy a gift for a boyfriend/girlfriend.

Make it Unique
Nothing will make your spouse smile like something they know is unique and heartfelt. Try shopping at local markets for a handmade personal gift. If you don’t know where to go there are countless online retailers that specialize in unique, one-of-a-kind handmade gifts. Whether it is vintage or hipster, spend a little extra effort (and likely a little less money) and get him/her something that will truly show them how special they are to you.

Activities
Gift For Boyfriend/Girlfiend
Give the gift an experience. While no one will be unhappy with jewelry or clothes, how about dancing lessons or a once in a lifetime vacation. Nothin will be more memorable than spending time doing something out of the ordinary with your boyfriend/girlfriend. Maybe even buy a gift card to somewhere your significant other has been wanting to do but you have been hesitant to do, cooking classes, yoga, or even learning a musical instrument. You will both get out of your comfort zones and will get to see each other in a new light.

Books
I know it may sound dull at first but books are a gift that many people would love but maybe don’t spend the time and effort to pick out themselves. With millions of books in print, the hard part is picking out a book that is meaningful to your significant other. Finding the perfect book will not only show you care but it will also show you have a deep understanding of the recipient. The gift of a book also shows that you consider your boyfriend/girlfriend to be an intelligent and thoughtful person who will understand the time and effort you put into picking out this gift. The trick is to spend time picking out just the right one, there are countless websites that can helpful you find the right book and also there is nothing better than a experienced shopkeep at your local mom and pop book shop.

Something Homemade
While it may seem cheesy or cheap at first, I assure you it is not. A quality homemade gift can be the best gift. If you write your boyfriend/girlfriend a song its something they will never forget. Can you imagine the look on their face when you hand them a poem you specifically about them. How about how they would feel flipping through a custom printed photo book that chronicles your relationship together. So start thinking, what are your skills? What are you good at? Use this school to give your boyfriend/girlfriend a meaningful gift.

So next holiday that rolls around you will be ready. Remember that it is not the money that counts but how much heart you put into it. Your boyfriend/girlfriend just wants to feel special, they just want to know you care and that the gift you get them is personal and meaningful.

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